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Invitations and the waitlist

What an invitation offers, what the waitlist does when a seat opens, and what leaving gives up.

Oct 12, 2026 — Paul Stroud

An event fills one of three ways, chosen by the organizer: they pick the players, they send invitations, or anyone can join. The event page shows you Accept and Decline, Join Event, or Join Waitlist, depending on which and on whether a seat is left.

An invitation

  • It reaches you by email, text and in-app notification, with a link to the event.
  • Accept takes a seat. Decline asks you to confirm.
  • If the event has filled by the time you accept, you join the waitlist instead.
  • An invitation you never answer expires the day after the event date.

The waitlist

  • When the event is full, the page offers Join Waitlist and shows how many are on it. You are told your position.
  • The organizer can cap the waitlist. When it is full, the page says so.
  • When a seat opens, the first person on the waitlist takes it and is told by email, text and in-app notification.
  • On 8 Player Gender Mixed Rotate Partner RR, the first person whose gender has an open seat takes it.

Leaving

  • Leave Event on the event page gives up your seat, your place on the waitlist, or both.
  • An invitation you had is withdrawn, so the event stops offering you the seat.
  • The next person on the waitlist takes the seat you left.
  • If you organize the event and also play, leaving gives up your seat only. You stay the organizer.
  • Leaving does not refund an entry fee. See Entry fee refunds.

Next step

Pending invitations show as a badge on your dashboard.